Our Professionalism Spotlight series highlights Illinois legal professionals who demonstrate the ideals of professionalism in their careers.
In this Professionalism Spotlight, we spoke to Ray J. Koenig III, a Member at Clark Hill, where he focuses on trust and estate litigation. He has spent his 26-year career practicing in this area, which he was introduced to as a clerk in law school.
Ray served as the 2023-2024 President of the Chicago Bar Association, and as a member of the Advisory Council for the Commission on Professionalism’s Bullying in the Legal Profession initiative.
How do you remain civil in tense situations?
I stay calm and civil in tense moments by listening and staying grounded. I do not get pulled into drama or let emotions take over; instead, I focus on what really matters.
With a steady presence and a deep respect for everyone at the table, I work hard to keep conversations respectful, even when things get tough. My ability to stay composed isn’t just about professionalism — it’s about caring and wanting the best outcome without burning bridges along the way.
From a physical standpoint, taking a minute to walk away always helps to defuse a situation and lower my temperature.
What is an attorney’s role in furthering public confidence in the rule of law?
An attorney helps build public trust in the rule of law by showing up with honesty, integrity, and a deep sense of responsibility.
It’s about more than knowing the law — it’s about guiding people through [legal processes] with care and clarity.
When an attorney listens, advocates fairly, and treats everyone with respect, it reminds people that the system can work for them. By being a steady voice for justice, even in difficult moments, attorneys help others believe that the law isn’t just a set of rules, but a promise of fairness, and one worth trusting.
What do you think is the biggest challenge impacting lawyers today?
One of the biggest challenges lawyers face today is staying true to our values in a world that’s moving faster than ever. With constant emails, client demands, business development pressure, and feeling the need to always be “on,” it’s easy to lose sight of why many became lawyers in the first place: to help people and uphold justice.
For me, the real challenge isn’t just keeping up with the pace, but slowing down enough to think clearly, act ethically, and stay connected to the human side of the work. Scheduling quiet time to think is a must.
How can the legal profession address workplace bullying?
As a member of the Advisory Council for the Illinois Supreme Court Commission on Professionalism’s Bullying in the Legal Profession initiative, I believe that the legal profession must act boldly to end workplace bullying, which deeply harms many, especially women, younger lawyers, LGBTQ+ lawyers, lawyers with disabilities, and lawyers of color.
Change starts with clear anti-bullying policies, confidential reporting, and real consequences. Courts should lead by enforcing courtroom civility and by training judges. Law schools and bar groups must also teach lawyers to recognize and prevent bullying, including bystander intervention.
For me, building a culture of respect and support where every lawyer feels safe and valued is essential.
What do you do for fun?
I love spending time with my family playing board games, binging on streaming shows, and attending my teens’ swim meets. I also really value long walks and catching up with my husband.
As a highly social person, I also relish time with good friends and clients over a nice meal.
Finally, when I find time to be alone for a few hours, I love to dig into a good book — usually history or historical fiction.
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